I went to court last Wednesday ....

[MORTARDUDE]

and the Judge gave my wife and I our divorce decree. It was a long, sad, sobering, expensive, experience. There is a lot I could say, but I think... "IT'S OVER".... about sums it up.

Larry

[Tina]

Larry I am sorry.. you are always and will always be in my prayers
love ya
tina

[billyguns]

Man, I been there, done that, and yea it damn near killed me! BUT, it did'nt! Hang tough my brother, time heals all.

[exlrrp]

Divorce is always a sad business--been through it twice. Its the end of an era, a lot of hopes and dreams dashed.
But it always works out better in the end. Now you get to keep looking for the right person--which is looking for yourself.
Be free of the things that hold you down. Youve already taken the first steps.
Stay good, Larry, good luck
James

[SEATJERKER]

...know where your at, and been,...

...seems like we've all been down that rocky road, as mine just went on paper on wens,...

...know in your head, and heart that you tried, and gave "it" your best effort, no excuses, move on, and be well, you deserve it,...

...we will never have the answers for the why's, and what's, so what the phuck, don't look, and happiness will find you, find something in your life that keeps you busy, and eases through this abyss,...

...

Sorry for your divorce, hope you can find some peace and resolve your feelings.

[Andy]

Larry it?s over and time to move on. Yes, I know, easier said than done, but you need to get out of the house and mingle. Our younger son is separated and the divorce should be done in mid-December, just before Christmas. She had the seven year itch. She also owned a business and THEY are in debt to the tune of $200,000+. Also she?s all bent out of shape because it doesn?t appear she?ll be getting alimony. I pray you both find someone else soon. Not necessarily to marry but a companion.

Stay healthy in all ways,
Andy

[revwardoc]

Yep, divorce is a damn tough thing to have to go through. I didn't want to divorce my first wife; I wanted her to die! It would've been a lot easier to take. I did have to go talk to a shrink, though. But, hey, you'll find someone else. They say there's someone out there for everyone; but it's not necessarily the one you meet first. Keep lookin', and good luck.

[sfc_darrel]

Our sailor is also getting divorced

Communication, to her, meant not talking til she wanted to and that could take days. And when he talked to her about going for counseling her response was "why?". End of discussion.

He picked up papers from the legal office. They filled them out. He made 4 copies. She tore up one.

Their 1st Anniversay was Sept 19th.

[SEATJERKER]

...there seems to be a changing of the guard among the "younger generation" as I call it,...

...the view point of everything being disposable, when times get tough, they run, and say, something new will be better,...

...My Mother used to say "It's not the good times that make a marriage, it's the hard times, the bad times make it stronger as you work through it together",...

...the values of, and being in relationships that once were instilled from parent to child came with, and began with "courting", the aspect of "courting" has been shelved, and parental guidance only seems to be "what have you done for me lately",...

...Not all fall in that category, but I feel the vast majority of today's children view life as footloose, and fancy free, my daughter just gave me flak about bringing her house key, and a form of "ID" with her as she is setting out on a day trip to Lake George with her "boyfriend", and his family, stating "I'll lose it/them,...

...it's about being responsible I said,...

... 14 is a tough year for a girl "in love"

...Larry,... God doesn't give you any more rocks then you can carry, you've humped a tougher ruck then most, and you should be proud of your acomplishments to date, we've been hit hard, and been to the edge, and looked down, now it's time to look at all the positives in your life, and the Lt. says "keep movin",...

... small steps, one at a time, one foot in front of the other, don't look back, and be well,...

...Curtis,...

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