over 30 years of nursing home fire inspections, I can tell you there are very, very , very few good nursing homes that exist.
The best thing is to make an unanounced vist to one your thinking about , (lunch time ) If the home wont let you, you have to ask yourself, WHY?
Here is a web site, If you don't have a good POP up blocker don't go here, let me know and I'll cut and paste info.
http://www.angelfire.com/tn/NursingHome/
Ron