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I had before my marriage a couple of friends who were ladies. We didn't date but enjoyed each others philosophy and company. When I became engaged to my wife I purposely faded out those relationships (my present wife and girlfriend at that time did not ask me to do so). I felt that my wife must become my best friend and confident, which she has over the years. We've been married nearly 35 years and it has been a good relationship. If you are married, you are walking on very dangerous ground. If you are not married and not committed to another woman it will work but if not I personally wouldn't try it.
Far too many bosses and their personal secretaries have found out that their working relationship and friendship turned sexual. Close friendships with opposite sex often turn sexual. The common statement I've heard is: "it just happened."
After I got married I was visiting with a father of one the girls who was a friend. He said that she was heart broken when I married my wife. She had always desired that the relationship would have turned into a romatic relationship. I had no idea that she was hurt. I never once had even indicated I would want to have a boy friend / girl friend relationship with the young lady. Be careful.
Revwardoc put it well it is a very dangerous thing and the possibility of hurting others very real.
Keith
P.S. Sole is the bottom of your shoe. or . . . a fish from the flaunder family.
Soul is the real you emotionally and mentally.
I had a bunch of old Nike / Adidas sole mate jokes but I'll be
polite, no matter how difficult.
Oh well the English language is so confusing.
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